Healing for Adult Survivors of Childhood Abuse

Helping survivors understand abuse, begin healing, and find lasting hope through biblical wisdom and God’s grace.

Childhood abuse can leave wounds that follow us long after childhood ends. Fear, shame, and painful memories often shape how we see ourselves, our relationships, and the world around us. Yet our past does not have to determine our future.

I know this journey because I have walked it myself.

Abuse Journal is a faith-based resource created to help adult survivors of childhood abuse and domestic violence understand abuse, begin healing, and discover lasting hope through God’s grace.

Whether you are searching for answers, taking your first steps toward healing, or growing deeper in your faith, I hope you find encouragement, wisdom, and hope here.

  • The Only Book that Will Save Your Life

    Upstate, New York. Mid 1980’s. My father had a way with words, and one day, in a moment of anger, his silver tongue planted the healing seed of faith. It all began after my husband destroyed our wedding presents in a fit of rage, except for an elegant family Bible. Several months later, I walked up the steps to his small apartment, knocked once, and opened the door. Stepping into the kitchen, I notice he is in the next room, sitting on the side of the bed.

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  • The Powerful Truth in Telling Your Abuse Story

    Abuse thrives in secret, and fear traps you in despair. That’s why abusers say, “Don’t tell anyone.” When you tell your story, the intimidation and control decrease, and you become strong and outspoken—the first step in overcoming abuse.  I’ve learned the problem with telling your story of abuse is getting someone to listen and believe you.

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  • The Police Were the First to Speak for Me

    Revised on July 28, 2026 There are moments in life when someone else’s courage changes the course of your future. For me, that courage came from police officers who chose to listen, investigate, and intervene when I was too afraid to speak for myself. I was twenty-one. 

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  • Why You Need Love and Compassion to Heal

    Have you ever missed the opportunity to give someone the love and compassion to heal? If so, you know the heartbreak that comes after your actions. I wept at the missed opportunity.  Why do people miss this chance?  I’ve learned that personal experiences impact our actions and reactions toward others. I let emotional afflictions get in the way of expressing the love and compassion needed to…

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