Healing for Adult Survivors of Childhood Abuse

Helping survivors understand abuse, begin healing, and find lasting hope through biblical wisdom and God’s grace.

Childhood abuse can leave wounds that follow us long after childhood ends. You may struggle with fear, shame, painful memories, or difficult relationships without fully understanding why. Yet your past does not have to determine your future.

I know this journey because I have walked it, and I want you to know that you are not alone.

Whether you are searching for answers, taking your first steps toward healing, or growing deeper in your faith, I pray you find the understanding, hope, and encouragement you need here.

  • Abuse Journal: Reflections of a Survivor’s Healing Journey Is Now Available

    Update: September 1st, 2026 I’m grateful to announce that Abuse Journal: Reflections of a Survivor’s Healing Journey is now available on Amazon. For years, Abuse Journal has been more than a blog. It has been a place to reflect on the realities of childhood abuse, domestic violence, faith, forgiveness, and the long journey toward healing. What began as personal writings during my own recovery has…

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  • After Ten Years, The Secret Darkness Is Complete

    As you may know, I started writing on Tumblr to release the anguish of abuse—all the pain buried for years. Why Did You Start a Reflective Life Writing a Blog At first, the memories came in bits and pieces—scattered reflections of childhood, broken relationships, and living in fear. The more I wrote, the more memories spilled onto the page, as tears flowed for the first…

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  • When Secrets Come to Light

    There are moments in life when we look back and realize that God was working long before we understood what He was doing. When I registered Abuse Journal on October 5, 2020, I thought I was creating a website to encourage other survivors of childhood abuse and domestic violence. As a self-taught website developer, I enjoyed building websites, but I had no idea how deeply…

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  • The Value of Reflective Writing for Abuse Survivors

    Hello again! It’s been two years since you’ve read a new reflective writing post on Abuse Journal. I must confess that reflecting on the past took a toll on my emotions. I asked myself; How far do you want to look back, how deep do you want to dig to uncover the moments in life that keep you downtrodden? I stopped looking back on the…

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  • Love is Action Not a Feeling

    Love is action, not a feeling, and the actions of a man (or woman) tell you he (or she) loves you. Words can change on a whim, but his (or her) consistent actions of devotion and support tell you he (or she) loves you. When a man’s (or woman’s) words always match his (or her) actions, and his (or her) actions always profess love for…

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