About

I’m L.M. Carleton, an abuse survivor, mother, and professional caregiver to older adults and the physically and mentally disabled for twenty-plus years. My purpose for writing is to illuminate the darkness and empower abuse survivors with the wisdom to overcome childhood abuse, adverse childhood experiences, and domestic violence and live abundant lives.

I remember growing up in a dysfunctional family—the trauma of child abuse, neglect, and domestic violence after leaving home at eighteen.

I understand how challenging it is to overcome living in fear of an abuser when you feel trapped in a hopeless situation, as anxiety grips the mind and anguish fills the heart.

I know it’s hard to talk about your secrets of abuse and the physical and mental trauma you suffered. How you long to forget the worst day of your life, but emotional wounds remind you of afflictions.

Overcoming the fear of exposing your abusive secrets and telling what happened is extremely difficult. However, the danger of keeping your abuse a secret is that you repeat unhealthy behavior patterns and carry the burdens of guilt and shame.

Gain the Wisdom to Overcome Adversity

I’ve learned when you acknowledge the past, you gain insights into overcoming childhood adversity, domestic violence, and the freedom to change your life.

At forty-eight, after an unexpected encounter with an estranged, abusive husband on a dating website, I started a writing blog to release the anguish.

I began to reflect on the past and acknowledge the secrets or skeletons in the closet. Wrote an Open Letter to Parents to address childhood trauma and reflected on three and one-half years of domestic violence.

I cried out!

Lord, why do I always suffer?

He illuminated the darkness with wisdom to gain clarity on abusive behavior and understand ten reasons why relationships fail, why love and compassion are needed to heal, and more.

I’ve learned humbling lessons about being an abuse victim, such as how to profit from suffering, which I share with you.

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I’m working on writing a memoir, “The Secret Darkness: Overcoming Abuse and Finding Freedom,” in hopes you gain the courage to tell your story of abuse and find hope for a better life.

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Thank You,

L.M. Carleton, Abuse Overcomer, Rescued by Grace