Throughout my healing journey, I’ve learned that even in the most challenging times, a glimmer of hope can break through the darkness, even when the fear of abuse feels overwhelming.
I remember moments when fear clouded my thoughts and influenced my decisions. The weight of past trauma left me feeling lost, burdened by sadness, guilt, and shame. I often sought to hide from those who hurt me and isolated myself to escape difficult situations. The emotional pain feels like a never-ending punishment.
At times, I met individuals who provided support, offered guidance, and shared wisdom to illuminate the path to freedom. Although moving out of the darkness to overcome adversity felt overwhelming, it was possible.
Revised on 11/23/24
I’m making significant progress on writing the Memoir—such advancement that I’m doing the happy dance. I’ve also learned a great lesson: Don’t be afraid to search and search for “the best takeaway” for the reader.
The best takeaway gives readers hope for the future. It can be hope for a better life or a particular struggle they are facing. If the takeaway is not hopeful, the book will likely fall flat.
No happy dance.
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Revised on November 24, 2024
Pope Francis shared 21 Reflection Points at yesterday’s “Protection of Minors in the Church” meeting in the Vatican. Number 9 on increasing awareness of the causes and consequences of sexual abuse grabbed my attention.
Reflection Point # 9: Increase awareness of the causes and consequences of sexual abuse through ongoing formation initiatives of Bishops, Religious Superiors, clerics and pastoral workers.
I thought, yes, society needs to “increase awareness of the causes and consequences of sexual abuse” and all other forms of abuse.
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A message of unconditional love.
She was a quiet child, sensitive at heart. All she ever wanted was love. Her heart yearned for someone to care, to feel loving arms holding her securely.
Tears flowed down her cheek in the darkness of night.
Not a single person in sight.
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