Throughout my healing journey, I have learned that even in the darkest moments, a small glimmer of hope can break through—especially when fear and memories of abuse feel overwhelming.
There were times when fear clouded my judgment and shaped my decisions. The weight of past trauma left me feeling lost, consumed by sadness, guilt, and shame. I often withdrew from others, hiding from those who caused harm and isolating myself as a way to cope. The emotional pain felt endless, like a constant punishment I could not escape.
Although stepping out of the darkness and facing adversity felt daunting, it was possible. Along the healing journey, you meet people who offer support, guidance, and wisdom, illuminating a path toward healing and freedom.
Revised on 11/23/24
I’m making significant progress on writing the Memoir—such advancement that I’m doing the happy dance. I’ve also learned a great lesson: Don’t be afraid to search and search for “the best takeaway” for the reader.
The best takeaway gives readers hope for the future. It can be hope for a better life or a particular struggle they are facing. If the takeaway is not hopeful, the book will likely fall flat.
No happy dance.
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Revised on November 24, 2024
Pope Francis shared 21 Reflection Points at yesterday’s “Protection of Minors in the Church” meeting in the Vatican. Number 9 on increasing awareness of the causes and consequences of sexual abuse grabbed my attention.
Reflection Point # 9: Increase awareness of the causes and consequences of sexual abuse through ongoing formation initiatives of Bishops, Religious Superiors, clerics and pastoral workers.
I thought, yes, society needs to “increase awareness of the causes and consequences of sexual abuse” and all other forms of abuse.
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A message of unconditional love.
She was a quiet child, sensitive at heart. All she ever wanted was love. Her heart yearned for someone to care, to feel loving arms holding her securely.
Tears flowed down her cheek in the darkness of night.
Not a single person in sight.
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