Abuse Journal

Wisdom to Overcome Childhood Adversity

Along the journey to overcome childhood adversity, I learned that even in the darkest moments, a glimmer of hope can break through—especially when fear of abuse is overwhelming.

I remember how fear traps you in darkness, how the trauma makes you feel lost and consumed with sadness, guilt, and shame. The emotional pain feels like an endless punishment that’s impossible to escape.

Although stepping out of the darkness and confronting adversity can feel daunting, it’s achievable with the wisdom that illuminates a path towards genuine healing and freedom.

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  • The Lesson Learned By Being Wrong

    Admitting your wrong can be difficult, mainly when your own words speak the truth back to you. But being wrong is not bad if you learn a lesson.

    I wrote a letter to a friend in June 2018.

    I opened a saved copy yesterday to reread the contents, and the words of truth spoke to my heart. I’ve been doing the same thing, going in the wrong direction. 

    I filled my mind with speculations and theories and searched to explain past suffering and this dark and sinful world. The very things I’ve consumed drive a wedge between Christ and me.

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  • Humbling Lesson Learned About Being an Abuse Victim

    Dear Reader,

    I started writing after a powerful realization about the abuse I had faced for years. I experienced child abuse, sexual abuse, and domestic violence, which clouded my thinking. My spirit was restless, and my heart was filled with fear.

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  • The Danger of Keeping Family Secrets

    After years of suffering, I learned that keeping secrets from the public eye was a grave weakness. Secrets prevent you from moving forward in life.

    My Father spoke in riddles, making you think one minute and confusing you the next.

    Like the baffling statement, “You can’t start life with a broken garden hoe,” made days before my wedding, it confused me for twenty-eight years.

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