Throughout my healing journey, I have learned that even in the darkest moments, a small glimmer of hope can break through—especially when fear and memories of abuse feel overwhelming.
There were times when fear clouded my judgment and shaped my decisions. The weight of past trauma left me feeling lost, consumed by sadness, guilt, and shame. I often withdrew from others, hiding from those who caused harm and isolating myself as a way to cope. The emotional pain felt endless, like a constant punishment I could not escape.
Although stepping out of the darkness and facing adversity felt daunting, it was possible. Along the healing journey, you meet people who offer support, guidance, and wisdom, illuminating a path toward healing and freedom.
It’s possible to love a man without being sexual. Say what? I grappled with this problem for over twenty years and discovered the answer. And no, it’s not through his stomach, so hold the biscuits and gravy.
How to Love a Man Without Being Sexual – a blog post to answer my daughter’s comment on “Why Doesn’t My Mom Love Me.” She was interested to know how to love a man without being sexual.
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How Men Show They Are in Love – a follow-up post, in conclusion, to “How to Love a Man Without Being Sexual.“
Over the years, our father unknowingly taught his daughters that men show their love for a woman by having sexual relations with her.
Having witnessed inappropriate sexual contact repeatedly, I developed an abnormal mindset that carried over into adulthood.
I believed the way to win a man’s heart was through sexual pleasure. That sexually pleasing him made him fall in love.
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Sharing the grace of God and the good things He has done for you is a great honor. Yet, the adversary seeks to stop you from doing just that.
You will get distracted with tasks or busy work that don’t;
This busy work will distract you from sharing the grace of God.
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