It’s possible to love a man without being sexual. Say what, I grappled with this problem for over twenty years and discovered the answer. And no it’s not through his stomach so hold the biscuits and gravy.
How to Love a Man Without Being Sexual – a blog post to answer my daughter’s comment on “Why Doesn’t My Mom Love Me.” She was interested to know how to love a man without being sexual.
The Lie Woman Believe
The biggest lie we woman believe is that being sexual and physically intimate with a man equals love to a man.
In believing this lie, we ultimately place our value and worth in our bodies. We crave feelings and pleasing our man to the fullest extent is a constant desire.
Then to make matters worse, the media feeds into our sexual desires with ways to become more desirable to men. Ways to knock a man’s socks off using makeup, sexy undergarments and sexy lingerie (I have a humorous story about sexy lingerie, perhaps I’ll be courageous and share it one day). And don’t forget the jewelry and high heel shoes.
The problem is even though this can be fun for a moment.
It does not equal love to a man. It’s sex.
Your value as a woman to a real man is “not” in your body.
Your value as a woman to a real man is “found” in your loving heart.
What is Love to a Man
I believed this lie for years because “no one told me the truth.”
I lacked the knowledge necessary to discern what genuine love was to a man. Was clueless that men and woman think, experience and express feelings differently. I had no idea a man can have sex with you and not be in love with you. I believed sexual pleasure was love.
The truth hurts and then it helps you heal.
The moment I began to understand the truth; I stopped placing value in my body and having casual sex with men who couldn’t cherish me.
How I learn to Love a Man Without Being Sexual
The go-to guy!
Joe Amoia at gpsforlove.com
I was a real mess and a lady in distress when I found Joe’s website and video blogs several years ago. Joe has helped me understand men, dating, and relationships. And that is the key to finding out how to love a man without being sexual.
We must begin by learning to understand men, dating, and relationships. Not all relationship advice is worth listing to or following. Joe’s advice works.
Read the post “How Men Show They Are in Love.”
The best advice I can give is to visit Joe’s website, signup for his newsletter and view his video blogs. Get involved with his community and learn how to love a man without being sexual.
I learned love is an action with an ability to carry through on a continuous basis. Love is in the moments you share with one another. It’s building a stable relationship on trust and loving devotion to helping one another through life’s struggles.
Love is something that grows over time and continues to develop and matures with age. It’s always given away to others, not obtained from another person. And when a person doesn’t cherish and value themselves and others, they won’t have the ability to give or receive love.